The Optimist: See the rose not the thorns

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After trying something new or attempting a new skill the pessimists are always more accurate about how they did, while the optimist see their results as being more effective than it actually was. Optimist enjoy the genius of unrealistically evaluating their performance at a specific skill or task. This unrealistic evaluation of their performance is the secret to their future success. Invariably, optimist end up mastering the skills while the pessimist fail.

Think for a moment why is that? Optimist are those who despite not having any association to success or even association to failure,manage to ignore these references, that would normally leave cognitive place mats such as “This is a scam” “I failed” or “I can’t succeed”. Instead the Optimist learn how to associate faith to their imagination to conjure a new picture of themselves doing something different and succeeding next time.

It is this genius,unique ability, and prestige focus that allows the optimist to pursue an objective until eventually they gain the distinction that puts them over the top. The reason why success skips most people is because they don’t have enough references of succeeding in the past. Where the optimist operates with beliefs such as “The past does’t equal the future” 

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Change Your Beliefs Change Your Life

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“Drugs are not always necessary, [but] belief in recovery always is.” –Norman Cousins

So often, people often get trapped into thinking that events control our lives and that environment shapes who they are today.

“It’s not the events of our lives that shape us, but our beliefs as to what those events mean.”- Anythony Robbins

It’s never your environment; Its never the events in your life. But the meaning you associate with the event;how we interpret them shapes who we will become tomorrow. Beliefs are what makes the difference between a lifetime of joy and freedom or misery and bondage. Think for a moment. What are beliefs designed to do? There the guiding force to tell us what will lead to pain and what will lead to pleasure. Whatever happens in your life your brain ask two questions 1.)will this lead to pain or will this lead to pleasure? 2.)What must I do now to avoid pain or to gain pleasure? The answers to these two questions are based on your beliefs. If you ever wonder why people do what they do, remember human beings are not random creatures: all our actions are the results of our beliefs.

“Beliefs have the power to destroy and the power to create”-Anthony Robbins

We need to be aware that our beliefs have the capacity to make us sick or make us healthy in the moment. Beliefs have been documented to affect our immune system. Most importantly beliefs can either give us the resolve to take action; or weaken and destroy our drive. In this moment beliefs are shaping how you respond to what you’ve just read and what you’re going to do with what you just learned from this blog post. So what is a belief? Most people treat belief like its a “thing”,when really it is a feeling of certainty about something.

If you say “I believe I’m going to become the next Top Earner in my company ” all you’re really saying is “I feel certain that I am going to be the next Top Earner in my Company.” This level of certainty allows you to produce outstanding results.

“The belief that becomes truth for me, is that which allows me the best use of my strength, the best means of putting my virtues in action. – Andre Gide

 

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3 Reasons Why YOU should Avoid MLM OR Network/Internet Marketing

 

 

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Thanks for visiting WealthBuildPro, This may be the most extraordinary information you’ve discovered about MLM or Network/Internet Marketing. If you’re reading this post it’s likely you were surfing the internet for information on Network/Internet Marketing OR MLM. Maybe your on the ropes about joining an MLM or Network/Internet Marketing business. Or maybe you’re looking for a new way to develop an income. Maybe you want to live an abundant life and contribute  to your community more. Today is you’re lucky day this post is going to give you 3 major reasons why you should actually AVOID Network Marketing.

 

The first reason you should avoid MLM or Network/Internet Marketing is awareness. You may become extremely aware and consider your ways of being and present habits. You may even challenge your parents ways of thinking about money and wealth. You may discover a powerful secret that could transform your life and discover your financial blueprint. Your financial blueprint consist of a combination of your feelings,thoughts, and actions in the arena of money. Think for a moment. Do you think a child comes out of the womb with his or her attitudes about money? Every child was taught how to think about and act in relation to money.

The second reason you should avoid MLM or Network/internet Marketing is Enlightenment. You may begin making a few choices during the average day that reflects your present awareness about wealth. Consciously you will begin observing your thoughts and actions so you can live from true choice,liberty,and independence in the moment rather than being ran by programming of the past. Once you are conscious, you can see your programming of the past. Once you are conscious, you can see your programming for what it is. Simply a recording of information you received and believed in the past,when you were too young to know any better. You can see that the recordings and programming are not who you are but who you were conditioned to be.

“Consciousness is observing your thoughts, and actions so that you can live from true choice in the present moment rather than being run by programming from the past.”

Once you are conscious you will see that much of what shapes who you are comes from other peoples beliefs and information.

The third most important reason why you should avoid MLM or Network/Internet Marketing is the fact that if you don’t avoid this industry you’ll begin to develop a millionaire mindset and millionaire habits. You may start writing down financial objectives that demonstrate your intentions to create abundance. You may go to expensive restaurants and order a meal without asking for the price. You may fully,totally and truly commit to creating wealth. You may learn how to provide infinite amounts of value to the marketplace. You may discover interdependence and learn that life is not just about you its also about contributing to others.

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Career In Network Marketing:Improving Communication Skills

 

Thanks for visiting WealthBuildPro. If you’re reading this blog post it’s likely you’re in a business via e-commerce or network marketing and you were surfing for information to improve your communication skills for the purpose of prospecting for your business. Before I go any further, I want to congratulate you for {playing big}searching for value to improve yourself and your business. To often we underestimate the power of profound knowledge. Communication skills are one of the most important tools you’ll need on your tool belt when it comes to building any business. Being sharp with how you Communicate with people is SO important because, people will only do with and refer business to  those they know, like and trust. In fact, most of the things that you want in life that is high in value is going to require you to become a master communicator to get them.

Communication is what stands between you and success, it isn’t experience it isn’t talent. Communication is getting your message across to others. In your industry everybody has a message to get across or information to share, but how do you make those words count? How ofter do you get through to others? Everybody talks but how do you make your words count? How do you really communicate with others ?

How you communicate with others can make you a break you. Without communicating effectively people cannot succeed in life, working hard is not enough. The way you communicate determines how much money you make. Have you ever wanted people to listen to you so you can help them make choices? If you can’t communicate effectively you won’t be able to reach your full potential, you won’t succeed in the way you desire.

Communication is all about connecting with other people. Connecting is the ability to identify and relate to others in a way that increases your influence with them. How much would your business expand if you you excelled at connecting and reaching out to others?

“The number one criteria for advancement and promotion for any entrepreneur is an ability to communicate effectively”

Think for a moment. What do communication skills depend on? Connecting! Connecting is not just for CEO’s and entrepreneurs, its for everyone that desires to be more effective at what he or she does or enjoy better relationships. Connecting helps in every area of life. When you connect with others, you position yourself to make the most of your skills and talent.

Now that we’ve covered a few bases and skim the surface of what communication is about. I will share with you a few open-ended questions known as “Feel Good Questions”. As I’ve mention earlier in this post, the Golden Rule; all things being equal people will do businses with and refer business to, those people they know, like, and trust”. Feel good questions is a great way to make a connection with family,friends,associates,co-workers, but this questions are very effective when it comes to communicating with a new prospect and building rapport and trust.

“Business is all about relationships, cultivating relationships is all about communication, communication is all about connecting”

I want you to go out and test these questions as you are work on improving communication skills with others and cultivating new relationships with your prospects if you use these question on anybody at any moment you’ll make a better connection and impact for sure. Use these question ethically.

Feel-Good Questions:

“What do you do full-time?”

“What do you enjoy most about what you do?”

“What separates your company from the competition?”

“What advice would you give someone just starting out in your line of work?” (This question will make the individual feel like an expert.”

“Whats the most memorable or funniest incident you’ve experienced in your business?”

Bonus Feel Good Questions

“How can I know if someone I’m speaking to would be a good prospect for you?”

“How can I know if someone I’m speaking to could be someone you would like to meet?”

“How can I know if someone I’m speaking to could be a benefit to you in some way?”

Did you learn something? For most of you reading this some of this stuff is was probably very basic and thats okay, but there people out there in online/network marketing that need to understand the basics so they can get to the next level. If everyone understood what I was talking about the world would have much more value and less frustration. Comment below if you got value from this post!

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The Secret Soup-Making Wise Decisions

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Welcome to WealthBuildPro, todays blog is going to skim the surface on how decisions effect our destiny.  First I want to thank you for visiting WealthBuildPro, there’s a reason you are here on the site today, it’s likely that you’re in a business or thinking about starting a business and the fact that you’re here today lets me know that you’re taking your life serious and you have big BIG plans for your future. I am most grateful and honored to be sharing this post with you. I really hope this post impacts your life and the lives around you. I think we to often underestimate the value of profound knowledge and the impact of applied information, please like share and comment if you get any value at all from this post.

Do you remember hearing the bell ring for your first morning class in the 1st grade of elementary school? Did you cheer for your high school classmates when they passed a test with an A++? Think for a moment. Where were you then ? What were your intentions back then? What did you think about the most? Who were your friends? What were your habits? What were your hopes and dreams? If someone had asked you, “Where will you be in ten or fifteen years?” What would you have told them? Are you today where you wanted to be back then ? A decade can pass quickly, can’t it? Ten years from now, you will surely get there the question is: Where will you be? Who will you have become? How will you live? What will you contribute?

Now is the time to design the next decade of your life, not once they’re over. We must seize the moment.

Right now you are already in the early part of a new decade. The year 2024 will be here before you know it, and in ten years, you’ll be looking back on this day and remembering it like you do 2004. Will you be pleased when you look back, or perturbed?

Think about the last ten years of your life for a moment, were there times when a different decision would have made your life radically different from today, either for better or for worse? How have these decisions bought you to this point in your life?

As Anthony Robbins would say “It’s your decisions not your circumstances that shape your destiny.” If we decide to, you and I can make our lives an inspiring example of whats possible. How? Simply by making decisions today about how were going to live in 2024 and beyond. Right now you can make a decision. You don’t have to do what you’ve done for the last 10 years. You can decide to do something else, something new today; RIGHT NOW. If you truly decide to, you can do almost anything. 

I’m here to share with you that it’s not important initially to know how you’re going to create a result. What’s important is to decide YOU will find a way, no matter what. Don’t be paralyzed by the fear of not knowing how to make your dreams reality. As soon as you truly commit to making something happen the “how” will reveal itself. 

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Several Ways Man Benefit From Gold

ImageHey thanks for visiting WealthBuildPro, todays blog post is going to introduce you to the fascinating world of Gold and what I’ve been doing lately, keep reading and you’re going to learn how gold can benefit your future and why now is the time for you to take advantage. Perhaps no other metal in the world has the prestige of gold. The increase in demand for gold across the world is linked to a number of reasons. To be able to benefit from the increase of demand you should become familiar with the fundamentals of the gold market.

What Gold Is Used For

You may not be surprised to hear that gold jewelry accounts for a large portion of the gold market. Take a Look at the uses of gold.

  • Dentistry– Because gold is resistant to corrosion it has wide application to the dentistry industry.
  • Electronics– Because of its ability to efficiently conduct electricity, gold is a popular metal in electronics. Its used as a semiconductor in circuit boards and integrated boards in everything from cellphones and TV’s to missiles.
  • Jewelry- Since man first discovered it thousands of years ago, gold has been used as an ornament and in jewelry. The ancient Egyptian King Tutankhamen was so enamored with gold that he was buried in a gold coffin. Today jewelry is the most important consumer use of gold in the world, accounting for more than 70 percent of total consumption.
  • Monetary- Many central banks hold reserves of gold. In addition, gold is one of the only commodities that’s held in its physical form for investment purposes by the investing public.

What Makes Gold Valuable

  • Ductility- Gold is a very ductile metal. One ounce of gold can be converted into more than 50 miles of gold wire! This gold wire can then be applied in electronics and used as an electric conductor.
  • Malleability- Pure gold (24 Karat) is a very malleable metal and is prized by craftsmen around the world who shape it into jewelry and other objects of beauty. One ounce of gold can be transformed into more than 96 square feet of gold sheet!
  • Quasi-Indestructibility- Gold has high resistance levels and doesn’t easily corrode. Corrosive agents such as oxygen and head have almost no effect on gold, which can retain its luster over long periods of time (think thousands of years).
  • Rarity- Gold is one of the rarest natural resources on earth. Most people don’t realize this, but only about 150,000 tons of gold have ever been produced since humans first began mining gold more than 6,000 years ago. To give you an idea about how little that is, all the gold in the world wouldn’t even fill up four Olympic-size swimming pools! And because most gold is recycled and never destroyed, a majority of gold is still in use today. About 15% of gold is recycled every year.

How To Measure Gold

Gold like most metals, is measured and weighed in troy ounces. One troy ounce is the equivalent of 31.10 grams. The troy ounce takes its time from the French town Troyes, which was an important center of trade and commerce with a thriving precious metals market during the Middle Ages. When you buy gold for investment purposes,troy ounces and grams is the measurement of choice. When you want to refer to large quantities of gold,such as the amount of gold a bank holds in reserves or the amount of gold produced in a mine, the unit of measurement you use is metric tons. One metric ton is equal to 32,150 troy ounces.

If you’ve bought gold jewelry, you may have come across the following measurement; Karats (sometimes spelled carats) measure the purity of gold. The purest form of gold is 24-Karat gold (24K). Everything below (24K) denotes that the gold is alloyed,mixed or with another metal.

As you can see gold has a lot of uses and benefits to us.

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What is Interdependence?

Thanks for visiting Wealth Build Pro, this blog post is going to get you to step into the deep reality of your relationships through interdependence.  Gandhi quoted “Interdependence is and ought to be as much the ideal of man as self-sufficiency. Man is a social being.” First let me start off by telling you who this post is NOT going to help. If you’re a person that doesn’t want to become anything big in life this isn’t going to help you. If you’re a person that doesn’t care to make a lick of a difference in the world this is not going to be for you.  If you’re a person that doesn’t have a desire to play BIG then this post is not going to be for you. This post is for the go-getter and the go-giver.  This post is for the person that wants to make a BIG impact on the world. If you’re a person that wants to be able to leverage your relationships better, if you want to be able to see how relationships affect your life this post is for you. If you want more clarity,understanding and communication around roles and goals of your relationships this post is for you.

If you’re reading this post its likely you spend a large majority of your time awake communicating and interacting with other people or dealing with the results of poor communication or poor interaction. True interdependence is the richness of relationships,the adventure of discovery,the spontaneity and the deep fulfillment of putting people ahead of schedules, and the joy of creating together what did not exist before the relationship. Its the combined energy and talent from others that exponentially increase creativity,capacity and production in synergistic ways. The goal of this post is to get you see how our character and competence affect our ability to work with people in every dimension.

You would be astounded to discover how powerfully the problems and the potential of interdependence affect your time and the quality of your life. First, before we go further I want to give you a skim the surface definition of interdependence interdependence is mutual dependence between things. If you study biology, you’ll discover that there is a great deal of interdependence between plants and animals. Inter- means “between,” so interdependence is dependence between things.

What are “First things” in your life ? How many of these “First things” involve relationships with other people? You may not realize this yourself but everything you identify as “really important things” has to do with others. Even people that join businesses list something such as “Health” or “Financial Security” generally do so because they want to have unlimited resources to enjoy higher quality of life with friends and those they love the most. Our greatest joys and greatest pains comes in our relationships with others.

The constant is that quality of life is, by nature, interdependent. To love, is interdependent. “Love isn’t love until you give it away” It involves relationships with others and belonging. To learn and to feel ourselves expanding is interdependent. How often does learning come when were reading a book or watching a TV program or listening to an audio that was written and produce by others. How many times do you we get insights from seminars and webinars giving by others? How many do of our “own” ideas grow out of the ideas of others?

Humility comes as we realize that “no man is an island”, no one individual has all the talents, all the ideas, all the capacity to perform the functions of the whole. Vital to success in anything is the ability to work together,learn from each other and help each other grow.

The fact is were better together than we are alone.

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The Power of 3-way Call Mastery

Thanks for visiting WorkFromHomePro, this blog post is going to help you begin implementing 3-way calls into your daily marketing efforts.  The purpose of 3-way calls is to edify you and the business to your prospects. 3-way calls are one of the most effective ways of moving your prospect to the next phase of the information process. Very few people utilize this process so if you decide to master this method you will be ahead in the marketplace.

First I’m sure by now you’re asking yourself, “Why is the power of 3-way calls so effective?”  The power of a three-way call is based on the principle that, as human beings we tend to perceive less credibility in those we know than in people who are total strangers. It’s simply human nature. Your prospect will perceive you to be less credible than someone they’ve not yet met. Don’t be offended that’s just how it is. We can either fight against that principle and lose out on business OR embrace it, I’d say lets chose to climb the latter. Yet, very little people utilize the power of 3-way calls..Why? Two reasons stand out and very briefly we’ll discuss both.  One is most people feel like their bothering there upline and two people find it difficult to get their prospect to agree to this type of call without making them feel like their being set up for a double team ambush.  If you feel like your bothering your upline mentor would you feel that way if you felt that your three-way call would aslo help your Upline mentor? Would you feel differently ? Of course. Here’s why, your upline mentor has a profit motive in helping you build your business. The beauty of Network Marketing is no one man gets rich without enriching others. The best thing you can do is “Bother” your upline mentor as much as possible! 🙂

NOW THE HOW TO..

Here’s where people get stuck: “How to get someone to agree to a 3-way call without the prospect saying (No I don’t need to talk to anyone else I understand enough of your deal)” to How do you make a natural transition from a conversation to suggesting a 3 way call?

The best way to set up a 3 way call is at the very beginning of your initial presentation. After quickly determining what upline mentor with whom to do the 3-way call (use a mentor that you feel will be most relatable to your prospect). Begin to “edify” (build) your upline mentor to the point thatyour prospect feels like he would like to meet your mentor, this must be done with honesty and sincerity, which is why it is so important to learn how to develop and cultivate relationships. During your initial follow-up call to review with the prospect what they like best about the deal and why they are interested. Simply let them know that you are going to introduce them to someone they would like to meet. “Hold on just a moment. I’m going to see if I can get Andrew  (Upline-mentor) on the phone real quick to say hello to you. Hold on just a second.”

Let’s review what this does, first you transitioned into the 3 way call in a very natural way that takes the pressure off your prospect from thinking that you tactfully planned a double-team attack. Next, you phrased the invite in a way that it for him, not for you. An one last -Key point- You didn’t ask for permission (Hold on just a moment…I’m gonna..) leaving it up to the prospects judgement to participate or not. Remember the prospect, doesn’t know why this call is important. Finally, you didn’t force, manipulate or coerce your prospect into a 3-way call which is not right and deceptive.

Once you get your prospect and upline-mentor on the phone you edify them both and let your upline mentor take over and do the work for you. Double edification  is powerful.

Example. (Let’s pretend Andrew is your upline mentor and Adolfo was your prospect)

“Hey Andrew, this is Adolfo. He’s a very successful business owner and leader in his industry. We’ve discussed (Name of the Company) a couple of times. I’m very impressed with him, and could see Adolfo really ‘tearing up’ this business. Andrew,Adolfo; I’m gonna sort of step back and let you two say hello.”

Now let your upline-mentor takeover completely, no interruptions or jumping in to fill in any key things about the product or compensation plan.

Let the power of the 3-way call work for you …and your prospect!!

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2 Steps To Make Everyday Successful

Thanks for visiting WorkFromHomePro, this blog post is going to help you get the most out of your days by helping you understand that the secret of your success is determined by your daily agenda. You can make everyday of your life successful but the questions is, How?
I’ve learned there are two ingredients necessary to make everyday a successful day: Decisions and discipline. They are like two sides of the same coin, another way to look at Decisions and discipline is “Goal Setting” and “Goal Getting”. These two can’t be separated because one is worthless without the other.  I’m sure we’ve all heard the term “Good decisions today will give you a better tomorrow”. Its obvious that good decisions today will give you a better tomorrow but it seems that people don’t connect their lack of success to their poor decision making. Nobody says that making good decisions are always simple and easy but they are very necessary for success. To build a better life you must be determine to make better decisions.

 

Twelve critical areas to consider when making the right decisions:

  • Attitudes
  • Priorities
  • Health
  • Family
  • Thinking
  • Commitment
  • Finances
  • Faith
  • Relationship
  • Generosity
  • Values
  • Growth
  • If you focus on these 12 areas by making the right decisions in each area and maintenance and manage these decisions daily you can be successful.

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    If you can picture it you can accomplish it.

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    Thanks for visiting WorkFromHomePro, this blog post is going to help you understand the importance of Vision please listen to the Audio below where I go a little deeper into the importance of Vision. Please Like Share or Comment if you get value :)

    Vision is very necessary for success. You MUST see it first. When you’re thinking about creating massive levels of success, Goals alone aren’t strong enough for you to stick to a daily routine. Goals are not enough they have to be coupled with vision. Vision is who you want to become, goals are things that you want to accomplish. If  you cannot picture massive levels of success in your mind, you will be unable to accomplish it. If you can picture it, you CAN accomplish it. Vision focuses on YOU becoming the best you possible.

    Goals Are NOT Enough.

    Vision is thinking about how the attainment of your goals will make you feel. Vision is thinking about how others will view you once you accomplish your goals. Vision is seeing the Benefit, and then, seeing the benefit of the benefit.

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